Smart men out there help me save my relationship!!!!?

I know I already posted this, but I think I need to rephrase. If men like porn because there is no emotional attatchment to it (which I already understand), why can you go a week without sex with your gf/wife, but can't go more then two days without porn, as if you would die you know? If porn really is that meaningless then why would guys rather want to do that then be with the real girl if that is so much more special and "can't compare to a magazine or video?" I am really confussed!

keep in mind, we have been together for a year, were best friends before living together as bf/gf, NEVER had a fight, tells me he loves me constantly, even buys me little gifts, has even told me out of the blue when I was naked that I could be a girl from an x-rated magazine, http://www.myspace.com/arkanadesade... (I look like this)

Sometimes I feel like I am playing mommy, I cook, clean, comfort him, all those girly things, and yeah we do have sex. 3 times a week or so, but porn is everyday. Help me!

Smart men out there help me save my relationship!!!!?

I don't know sounds like some sort of addiction to me. That or he just likes to window shop. It is kind of like having the car of your dreams and then watching car shows and reading magazines about new/exotic cars. You love the one that you have but you still appreciate other makes and models. But I also think that if it is a problem then you need to let him know that and try to work it out. Also look on the bright side, you should not have to worry about him cheating b/c between the porn and the 3 times a week he should be satisfied.

Smart men out there help me save my relationship!!!!?

One reason is that with porn there is no obligation to perform. No foreplay, no intercourse, no need to please your partner. Thus there is no pressure. Further, porn allows you to fantasize experiences you might like but do not get. You are normal!!

Chow!!

Smart men out there help me save my relationship!!!!?

you could consider putting a filter on the computer, and not tell him what the password is, maybe he wants to stop. k-9 filter is good.