Alright so i really like this guy in my college but there was a rumor last year that he was gay, but someone asked him (i was there) and he was laughing and said he isn't. He has millions of friends who are girls (goes out places with them), likes to wear pink shirts, goes shopping (there is only 1 other guy i know who likes to do this and he is gay...), I know all of those things doesn't mean he is gay, I'm just confused cause of the rumor. He doesn't look gay, and on his myspace it says he is straight (but he may just be pretending because he is religious?) and he has had girlfriends but none in the college he is in now....he does hang out a lot with the guys in college too...
I also thought he liked me, and i catch him looking at me quite alot, but my friend keeps telling me he's gay...(and no she doesn't like him in that way) could he just be a 'girly guy'?
any opinions would be great thanx! NO IMMATURE ONES
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
Well if he asks you out then he likes you and apparently he's not gay. As far as that, I don't think it should matter if he's gay or straight.
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
Shopping and wearing pink make you gay?
He said he isn't. Why don't you trust him to tell the truth?
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
Pink Shirts, on a man??? It's like sodom and gomorrah !!!!
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
offer him a bj if he turns it down he is gay
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
if he said he is not gay and he is your friend would you not believe him
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
I know some very manly men that wear pink and other pastel colour shirts. They look hot! Have you considered in a private, rather serious way just asking him. Let him know it's not something you'd tell everyone, but, that you'd really like to know for sure where he stands.
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
He doesn't LOOK gay??
How does one look gay?
If he says he's not, he's not..
But maybe you should do him a favor and not ask him out anyway- he's obviously got much better self esteem than you.
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
maybe ur friend doesnt want u to go out with him but it sounds like he fancies u why dont u make a move and ask the guy if he fancies going out on a date with u end of day u have nothing to loose
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
if he said hes not gay then belive him. and its a good thing he likes shopping cos thats means he can carry all your bags lol. as for the pink top thats fine its fashion.
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
go and ask him
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
ok
short answer
Ask him!
Me having short hair, doesn't make me a lesbian any more than this guy is gay for wearing a pink shirt!
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
No IMMATURE answers?
How else can we answer an immature question like this.
MUD STICKS!
Someone made a comment.
Someone else heard it.
It slowly spread.
People say it so it must be true.
"I reckon you're a Lesbian!"
There, I have started the rumour so I guess you should do the things that Lesbians apparently do (whatever that is).
If he is single and you fancy him TRY TALKING TO HIM! Thats a better idea than listening to the rumour mill.
Your friend says Gay, do they know this guy? Well enough to know his private life? No? Then why listen?
Maybe you shouldn't have anything to do with this guy. He is obviously comfortable the way he is but you are not otherwise you wouldn't care what people say.
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
Becka -- there's no reason even to ask him. He said he's not; he's not.
(BTW I enjoy shopping, I have one or two pink shirts in my closet (no not THAT closet... heh), I like the symphony, and I'm engaged to be married to my female fiancee next year.
Some guys are extremely hurt by being tagged as gay, just because of dress or particular mannerisms. One of my professors in college called me a slur behind my back, and I haven't been able to forget it since. If you ask him, that just reinforces the power of the rumor. Think about how he'd feel: "Um, I know you already told me this, but since you wear pink and like to shop and all, and because of this rumor that's going around, before I ask you out on a date or flirt with you, I just want to make sure--you're not gay, are you?"
Regardless of whether you ask it in a more diplomatic way, that's what he's going to hear. So I'd say just start flirting, or ask him to do something, or make a pass at him after you've had some alcohol. If he rejects you, then either (a) he's gay, or (b) he's rejecting you. And if it's (b), you can blame it on (a), and you don't have to worry about it!
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
Tell him you like him and you need to know if he is gay. What's the problem, just talk to him. It's not like being gay is all that strange, is it?
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
There are some people who recognise that there are very definite walls in people's minds separating their rigid definitions and preconceptions. If someone stands on one of these walls everybody gets confused and starts speculating.
This speculation is your problem. If he attests to being straight and you've got vibes off him that he likes you, then I would assume he's straight and that his image is possibly a statement of his self-belief and confidence in his orientation.
He isn't necessarily a 'girly' guy either. Marilyn Manson wears female clothing but he is anything but effeminate.
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
Don't worry about whether he is gay or not!
Instead of asking him "out" why don't you just ask him if he fancies doing something with you sometime...erm...drink, coffee, cinema etc.
At the end of the day, if you like this lad it would be just as good to have him as a mate - and if he is isn't gay....friendship is the ideal starting point for a relationship.
I like this guy but i don't know if he's gay or not, help!?
He is not gay, I have written a book about my ups and downs in life after falling in and out of love so many times, also divorced twice and had to move out that upset my kids and turned me to drink but now I no longer drink, so I did a book to help others out there, who like me was cheated and used, Publishers spent money to do my book and is out in 106, also on most book shops and sites in UK, so I am not trying to get you to buy my book but it is a fact it will help you, it is full of good advice and called, =
(A Serial Shaggers Guide to Internet dating, My 1001 lovers), By Me, Author Clive Worth, Published named it this to get it to sell,
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